Saturday, January 21, 2012

Melynda's Obituary


Much loved Melynda Ann Miller Thomas, age 31, died Jan. 11,2012. She was loved by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing her. She was born April 14,1980, to Micheal and Denece Miller. She was sealed to David Lyle Thomas May 1,1999,in the St. George Temple. She will be dearly missed by very many including her husband David and her three little ones, Maya , Macie, and Abbi.
            Melynda was a skilled and caring mother. She considered parenting a fine art and an indispensable craft. Since she excelled at all arts and crafts, it follows that she would make a great mom. Patient, caring and fun loving, she was always committed to teaching her girls the skills necessary to become happy, productive little people. Her love for her daughters and their love for her were enormous.
            Melynda was a gifted person, perhaps the greatest of which was being able to make close friends. A person couldn’t sit down to talk to Melynda without feeling they had made a life long friend.  It was as if she were a rock star when she entered a room sometimes, complete with fanfare and screaming fans. It was awesome to watch.
            She was a wonderful wife.  Melynda and David had much more than their share of laughs in the twelve years they spent together.  David could not have asked for a better wife.  She always loved him even as she was throwing a well-deserved pan at him.  She always maintained her softball-throwing arm.
            No review of Melynda’s life would be complete without the mention of the remarkably wide variety of talents she developed in her life.  A first class cook, her parties were famous.  As a crafter extraordinaire, she made things that people actually wanted to buy.  Floral design, jewelry, furniture making, drawing, scrap booking, clothing design and production, heavy equipment operating, cement flatwork, and more were all things she enjoyed. One of her mottos was “I could make that.”
            She had a world-famous laugh and a smile that would make the sun rise.  She was truly an amazing person.  Passionate about life and always up for an adventure, she always maintained a good attitude, even when things went wrong.  Whether it was camping trips from hell, getting lost in Tijuana, or suffering life changing injury, she took life’s setbacks with a smile and asked herself “ What can I learn from this?”
            She will be remembered for the many close friendships that she had, the love that she shared freely with everyone and her desire to be of use to her fellow men.  She will be remembered for her can-do attitude, her sense of style, and her courage in the face of extreme hardship.  For her family, her memory will always define love.  And of course she will be remembered for that laugh.

Saturday, January 14, 2012

Final Funeral Information

Here is the final information for Melynda's services:

Monday Viewing from 6:00-8:00 pm
North Hamptom House
198 West 300North
American Fork, Utah 84003

Tuesday Viewing from 10:00-11:30 followed by
Funeral Services at 12:00
Stake Center
828 South Center Street
Lehi, Utah 84043

Wednesday Graveside Service 12:00 pm
Ivins Cemetery 
200 West 400 North
Ivins, Utah

Please send flowers to Sereni Care Funeral Home
12278 Lonepeake Parkway
Draper, Utah 84020

Please join us in celebrating Melynda  life.  We are grateful for the continual support and love you have offered to us during these past few weeks.  We can never thank you enough.









198 West 300 North
American Fork, Utah 84003

198 West 300 North
American Fork, Utah 84003

Friday, January 13, 2012

Our Melynda

Our beloved Melynda returned home to her Father in Heaven on Wednesday night.  She will be greatly missed by all who love her so dearly.  She was known for her  original laugh ,beautiful smile, and kindness to everyone she met.  We know Melynda touched and inspired so many around her .  Her legacy that she has left behind will be with us always.  David and her girls are in great need of prayers as is the rest of her family.  We thank you for all of your support you have shown so far it has strengthened us all during this challenging past two weeks.

 We will be gathering pictures and stories of Melynda's life from family and friends so that we can preserve her memory for her beautiful girls. If you would like to share a story or picture please email us at melyndassister@gmail.com

We are currently preparing for Melynda's funeral.  A veiwing will be held Monday January16 from 6 to 8 p.m. in Lehi (location a directions will be coming shortly),on Tuesday January 17 there will be a veiwing in Lehi from 10 to 11:30, the funeral services will begin at noon. A graveside memorial and burial will be Wednesday January 18 in Ivins Cemetary in St. George.   We will  update with exact times and locations as soon as possible. We love you all and are so grateful for your support and prayers.'

To celebrate Melyndas cheerful and bright attitude on life we ask that everyone wear bright colors.

Love, Melynda's Family

P.S.  For those of you who wish to send flowers please have them sent to
Sereni Care Funeral
12278 lonepeak Parkway Suit 103
Draper Ut 84020

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Update

There is not much progress in any way, things are still the same as Melynda remains in a vegetative state.  She has a tube placed in her mouth down into her lungs which helps to keep her lungs clear and breathing less strenuous.  Since the first couple of days her body continually tenses up and appears to be painful but without much response from her.  We hope and pray that she can be at peace.  Tomorrow she will be re-evaluated to see if she will be moving on to a long-term care center.  Thank you so much for your prayers and fasting, we can feel your strength and support and are very appreciative of it.  We will update this soon.

Saturday, January 7, 2012

Fast for Melynda

We invite all of you to join us in fast tomorrow for Melynda.  We have great faith that this is in Heavenly Father's hands but this is a way for all of us to do our part in helping her.  Thank you again for all the love, support, and prayers.  We are feeling their strength.

Phone calls

We appreciate all the concern that many have shown since we have posted this blog.  Since we have posted it David has received an overwhelming amount of phone calls and his primary focus right now needs to be on Melynda and his girls.  This blog was to inform everybody of Melynda but also to give Dave a break so he can put his focus where it needs to be.  This blog is the best that we can do right now and respectfully ask that this be your primary information source for now and let Dave do what he needs to do.  Thanks again for your consideration, and most importantly the best thing you can do is to keep Melynda and her family in your thoughts and prayers and we will try to make informative daily updates...

Thursday, January 5, 2012

**At this time Melynda is undergoing some major medical issues.  We started this blog for all of you who love her so much.  We know that she has had an influence on many of you.  We want this blog to be a way for all of you to keep track of her progress and also allow us to care for her at the same time and alleviate some of the phone calls that are coming in with questions of concern.  This is a place where you can share any thoughts of love and support that you would like to.  Please share any stories of her you have we would love to hear them.  Thank you all for your love and continual support!**
On Wednesday, December 28, David found Melynda in bed not breathing.  David began CPR and she was rushed to American Fork Hospital.  The doctors hoped for Melynda to wake up the following day but she did not.  By Saturday night she had begun to open her eyes for small amounts of time but was unable to focus on anything.  Saturday she began to have muscle tensing throughout her body and initially they thought she was having seizures.  They ran an MRI and an EEG and they both came back normal.  By Tuesday she still hadn't woken and she was still having muscle tension so they transferred her to another hospital so she could have access to a neurologist and so they could preform a continual EEG.  The continual EEG has come back normal and all her blood work has come back normal.  That has ruled out seizures.  After running all these test Melynda is now considered in a consistent vegetative state.  As of right now there are no further test planned. The doctors are waiting for her to respond or be aware of her surroundings before they can take any further actions.  Until then it is just waiting.  She will remain at Utah Valley until at least Monday and then she will be transferred to an acute long term care center.  Please keep Melynda, David, and their girls in your prayers at this very challenging time.  We still have much hope for Melynda and know that this is in Heavenly Father's hands.

David and his family really appreciate all the love and support they have had at this time.   We love all of you.  Thanks!